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Thomas Millar
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Sat, 27 Jul 2002 22:08:40 -0400
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Re: [idm] How much do you spend
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quoted 2 lines I tend to err toward a: although occasionally maybe go to b: on some> I tend to err toward a: although occasionally maybe go to b: on some > months. most of the time it's an educated decision to buy something,
etc. And Jeff had good comments too. One thing I've heard is that a true sign of an addict is a person who makes little rules for themselves, thinking that if they can just follow these rules, they don't have a problem. In a conventional sense, think of these popular refrains- "I don't smoke unless I'm drinking", "I only smoke after work", "I don't drink until after 7pm", "I only drink on weekends", "I only drink beer" etc. etc. Back in California I was blowing about $200 a month on average. I'm in the military, and after taxes, that turns out to be about 15% of my income. Yeah. So I just decided not to buy anything P&C'd prior to 2000. No more backcatalogue collecting. That, and nothing I don't know about that just 'looks interesting' (that was tough). Also, no more CD comps with the one 'gotta have it tune' and a bunch of no-names (you know what I mean). Last month I changed it all around- from now on, no albums I haven't heard before, meaning I either buy something I hear somebody else playing that I really like, or I get (new) albums by people I see at live shows. So far it seems to work alright, at least until my next relapse. As you can see, I had/have quite a problem. May God grant me the serenity etc. etc. Tom P.S. For my next money-saving trick, I plan to stop drinking at bars. Right. --------------------------------------------------------------------- To unsubscribe, e-mail: idm-unsubscribe@hyperreal.org For additional commands, e-mail: idm-help@hyperreal.org