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Tom Pereira
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Tue, 05 Dec 2000 12:17:31 -0000
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[idm] Re: Why don't girls like IDM?
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[ girls not liking IDM ]
quoted 3 lines I'm not holding it against them or anything.. it's just sort of sad that>I'm not holding it against them or anything.. it's just sort of sad that >they can't understand music unless it's sugar-coated and mass-marketed >directly to them
I think you are drawing conclusions where there are none. Perchance you don't know the right girls. Or perhaps you do, but they don't go crazy about telling you about their IDM leanings? Girls are generally less anally retentive, detailed and autistic than your average hunter gathering man-child and hence are less inclined to get obsessive about the maintenance of a record collection or telling other people about it ("look how much stuff I've got and how hard it was to find and how weird it is and how cool I am wank wank wank.."). That is a crass generalisation, obviously. There are equally many boys out there who like fun commercial music and don't really care about letting others know about it. The girls I know who incline towards obscurer IDM-leaned stuff like what they like, but aren't going to go crazy buying records that AE might have touched once off e-bay just to make themselves feel special. That might be the distinction you are noticing.
quoted 2 lines If there ARE any girls on here who actually do listen to IDM, I'm >curious>If there ARE any girls on here who actually do listen to IDM, I'm >curious >to know which tracks your boyfriends used to introduce you to >the genre?
I should imagine if I had tits I would find that quite insulting. My girlfriend introduced me to BOC many moons ago, so there. And no; she didn't get into it through a previous boyfriend. Tara, Tom. _____________________________________________________________________________________ Get more from the Web. FREE MSN Explorer download : http://explorer.msn.com --------------------------------------------------------------------- To unsubscribe, e-mail: idm-unsubscribe@hyperreal.org For additional commands, e-mail: idm-help@hyperreal.org